yolajean

Through most of my 80 years, I have been quick to criticize. I'm trying to do a better job (if that is the term) of accepting whatever others do without criticizing them. I hear your frustration and I believe that at some time in our lives, we have all been there. I guess I would suggest that you accept her lack of understanding of your work and try to approach her with kindness; and find a way to carefully explain to her that both ways are "applique", some people love to needle turn (I did that years ago). It is time consuming and yet beautiful. I, personally, prefer the "raw-edge fused applique, which allows me to do so much more; to accomplish so much more and to create a whole bunch of beautiful pieces. I do believe that if our predecessors, had access to fusing materials, they would have loved raw-edge applique. We are so blessed today with all of the new and useful tools and materials that were not available to our ancestors. If she continues to try and justify "her way", and if her friendship is important to you, try to ignore it. Otherwise, it will drive you crazy. In your class, you have the opportunity to offer both ways and allow the sewist to choose which she/he prefers. Very nice to have choices. Good luck. I'm sure you will find a way to resolve this without loosing a friend.