In bit of a shock 'cause I opened the daily newspaper here to find out my sister-in-law (brother's wife) had died on Monday, but he and family did not call me. That hurts. May she rest in peace. My prayers are with them as they struggle to accept their loss. He is my only brother and we were raised with love of foster grandparents, then he found religion and refused many times to accept family ties. But it does not stop the love and the hurt.