This is a very interesting thread. I used to love the holidays as well, even the shopping. lol Then came the daughter in laws. So I can relate. The good news is that I have adjusted my mind set on what the holidays should or should not be and I go with the flow. But I must admit, I don't feel the joy that I used to have when my kids were all at home. It might just be part of getting older ? Like not being able to see and / or hear as well as I used to be able to etc ? The only constant in life is change.... and holiday festivities, or lack thereof, is just one of those changes one has to accept. As the Good Book says: For everything, there is a season..... My mantra: It's all good !