I used to love the holidays. Since getting married and having contact with the "outlaws", I'm not really a fan and just wish I could have a few days off work without all the other stuff.
When husband's dad and stepmom moved back here 10 or 12 years ago, I did Thanksgiving and Christmas every year. They never offered to have it at their house or take us out. They are both retired and I'm still working full time. I just got tired of spending all my time off doing a meal for people who never reciprocated in any way so I finally just said "They can do the next holiday. I'll do the one after" That was several years ago and we haven't gotten together since. I really like it better. A nice quiet holiday. I even get to do a bit of sewing before I have to go back to work.
Last edited by cashs_mom; 05-14-2018 at 06:42 AM.