I draw a card each morning which gives me something to chew over through the day. Today's card is Judgement.
Like you, I've already thought of many reasons this might have happened.
I'm no longer cross about the trimming.
But one thing I'm really big on for myself, is owning our actions, taking responsibility.
I won't be going back because she did not own up to what occurred. That is what I'm mad about. Which puts me right back in Judgement mode

and I'm not going there.
Really, it is all right!