Sadly, many LQS' stay in their own world and look at as us as though we are green,
when we go outside their own world and comfort zone.
I learned very quickly .... I don't say, I saw it on the internet.
Rather, I now will say .... a friend told me about this ...
... and will be as specific and knowledgeable as I can be along with product/brand names etc.
As for distance ... I guess it is all in perspective ...
... a 40 mile round trip is pretty much what I am used to for most things.
Unless of course, I can't do errands while en route.
For example, there is one quilt store I really like but seldom get to.
It's no further than others I do go to.
However, it is in the opposite direction of my normal travel patterns
for groceries, medical, banking, etc.
For sure, it is a real treat, when I do get to go there!