Is a Quilt of Honor the same as a Quilt of Valor? Are these meant to be used for comfort or hung on a wall? Are they already sewn, or are you looking for things that will be quilted onto them. This is posted in "Pictures", but perhaps your picture didn't get added. If they are not yet made, one idea might be to use 3D elements that consist of folded fabric. There's a book, Fantastic Fabric Folding by Rebecca Wat that might offer some ideas for embellishments you could make for yourself that would not be uncomfortable in a cuddle quilt. There is at least one star among her designs.