Welcome Stafar, this does seem to be a challenging time for some of us.
Had a bit of a scare myself but everything is going well now ( as of yesterday )
Have next appt. on lap band removal in 3 weeks, NP said sometimes it’s a 3 month wait. I am a happy camper
Then sister called and said to check my text messages. She had found a tombstone for my Mom and stepfather that she really liked. I agreed with her and it’s ordered. One more thing to cross off our list but it makes Mom’s passing more real