Coullmills so sorry for your loss. I was with my mom when she passed but I would not trade that for anything...I was at work when my father passed so it took me longer to grieve with his loss, thinking I should have been there etc...I knew moms was peaceful and she knew we were there. Hospice can do wonders for people in need. Working in a nursing home Ive seen them come in and really take care of their patients. Don't doubt that you made the right decision...its sometimes worse to see them linger.. Hugs and prayers to you and all your family!!