Janice, so sorry to hear about your friend's son. I hate drugs. They not only kill individuals, they maim and scar entire families for life. It seems that addiction is one almost impossible to break. So sad.
I'm glad to hear that your other friend has such a positive attitude about her diagnosis. Love her and enjoy your time with her. Make some memories now that will stay with you forever. You've had a double whammy today. ((((((Hugs)))))) my friend.