I have been a mental health nurse most of my life. My office is decorated with several quilts that I frequently change out. Bright, colorful quilts seem to distract in a very good way when someone is struggling with depression and anxiety. I would go for colorful with interesting patterns and very soft and warm. Minky would be wonderful as would flannel. The quilt I keep in my office for use is light gray, aqua and lavender and very soft. I also keep a weighted blanket that is soft and colorful for the austistic kids. All kids like it. This is a very thoughtful kind thing for you to do.