Sorry for your loss sounds so unreal that does not really express your grief, but you have been strong enough to think of your children and grandchildren and a way they can rejoice in their memories. Quilts last long after we are gone, too. Love and good memories will help you go through the grieving process. Your heart will always miss your husband, but life does go on whether we want it too or not. Love your children and grandchildren with more memories and love every day you have. We are taking each day at a time or one hour at a time as we grieve for lost loved ones.