I'm so sorry for your loss. We lost a son almost 5 yrs. ago. I know how it is to miss someone so much. Holidays and all those special days are just not the same. You most likely are not the same. I know we aren't. No matter how much you enjoy the other children and grandchildren, there's still something missing. I wish you and your family the best and love your quilt. I'm so glad you have something so lovely to remember your daughter by. God bless you.