I know you both appreciate the talent and skills of your husbands, but let me add to that. Some of us are married to what could kindly be referred to as, sarcastically, "Mr. Tool". My husband comes from a long line of intelligent men who can, maybe and on a good day, remove a screw from something. There's no putting in a screw, though. In fact his deceased cousin, a West Point graduate and professor of math at West Point, was affectionately known as "Mr. Goodwrench". The fact that you have spouses who can do what your men do, is amazing to me. Enjoy your good fortune and your good men!