I agree, a real machine. If you want her to learn and have the full experience, I would start with a Singer that goes on sale at Jo Ann's. During the Christmas season, you can get a good deal, especially using their coupons. As far as projects, in Home Ec. (you can tell how old I am - HA), an apron was the first thing we made. Also, flannel pajama bottoms, a sewing machine cover, and pillowcases are what I started with my granddaughter many years ago.