Just found this thread--it is terrific.
My situation is a bit different as I belong to a charity group in Phoenix that has a quilt shop worth of fabric for their charity quilts. We get LOTS of donations when ladies pass away or go into some sort of assisted living. It is a cautionary reminder to me not to have so much. Families are often overwhelmed. We will even go into homes and help them clear out the quilting supplies. We know groups to pass along other craft hobby supplies.
That being said I have to be very strong and not take too much home. I have a certain space for fabric and will not exceed that. I pretty much stay out of the many quilt shops here as they are like heroin. I took myself off just about every fabric selling site for sale emails. I keep reminding myself "You have enough". I do see the pretty new stuff on Instagram.