I have been blessed also by other members. I think the gift of giving is just that.. its a gift and it gives joy to the giver also. I pay it forward with what I can when I can. I do think a thank you directly to those who are so generous is one of the best gifts we can give. I have personally sent several packages out and had about a 50 percent reply of thanks. It would be nice to just know they arrived and were appreciated. No gifts or cards needed. Email is free!