Originally Posted by
Onebyone
Being the one who had to clean out two great aunts homes that neither one had moved in 60 years I can understand how children want parents to not leave a houseful of stuff. No way I'd want my kids to have the last memory of me as having to deal with mom's stuff.
I wouldn't want my kids to have to clean it out, but aren't there services who'll come in and take care of it? I tend to want to keep all the stuff that brings me joy. That said - it is important to weed the garden once in a while. I wonder what my sis-in-law would say - she took care of at least 2 estates before her own parents went.
I wish you a lot of luck with your downsizing and your move - it can be a tough job, but one with big rewards at the end!