Good for you making a decision that works for y-o-u! I don't feel guilty for letting someone else quilt my quilts either. I don't enjoy the process at all. Love getting guidance and talking about thread colors and quilting designs with the quilter first. Then the magic happens.
I've only had one bad experience sending them out. No worries, it was fixed and I move on.
Do what makes you happy in your quilting world!