That is the beauty of quilting. Nobody can tell you, you can't do it that way. For me, I like the slow and steady route. I like seams to match up and points to be present. Does it always happen, no, but I strive for it to. I think when things do match up and I do follow a pattern it makes it easier and more enjoyable in the long run. Quilt making is a process that builds on itself and if you take care of the details along the way you won't have to stress how to make it come together in the end. My friend is fast and casual and I am fine with that. She is happy and I am happy.