mine are going out in the mail today. I'm excited to be having a May birthday, and I like teh idea of having a B-Day month!
My son's bday is a week after mine, and he is planning on coming to visit the week between, so I am planning on taking that week off to spend time with him. Unfortunately my FIL called and said he is planning on coming for a visit the second half of May. I asked DH to tell him we would not be available the week DS is coming, so to make sure to come later. FIL is a drag to have as a visitor, he wants everything to revolve around him while he is here, including all conversations.
DH and I make sure to see that FIL has an enjoyable time when he is here - but that means we have to totally change our lifestyle for the duration.