My son also had ADD issues. Learning facts was easy for him but appropriate behavior was something else. We spent more on his elementary education than on college, but he was able to attend a small Montessori school. He saw and was able to model on the good behavior of the other students. I attended a Catholic elementary school. We had a no library, a very limited art program and the only music was choir practice. After I transferred to public school in sixth grade, I was amazed at all I had been missing. It's funny, but the American folklore and folk songs we learned are what stands out in my memory as being a very good thing. All of us kids shared a common American culture that I think was a good base.