Originally Posted by Granda
I hope you all realize how good your husbands are, because you certainly will when they are gone, as I am finding out. I have been married for a little over 44 years and my husband passed away three weeks ago. I miss him terribly. So everyone, go and give your husband an extra little hug. You'll be glad you did, plus it will keep him wondering why.
Oh I am so sorry to hear this. I know it is really hard losing your best friend, I watched my Grandmother go through this when my Granddad passed. My wife was with her almost everyday afterward helping her with what ever she needed. I was working out of the corporate offices several states over so I could only come in on the weekends to be with her.
But this is something that I have been pondering about for the last few months. My wife is 13 years older than I am and I know the law of averages say I will go before her (men dont last that long I guess). But I can not think of a day without her in my life if something ever happened to her.
That is another reason I am glad I left the corporate world and started working out of my garage. Because I am always here and I can spend lots of time with my family.
I know it hurts like crazy now an if there was a way that I could take the pain away from you I would. But surround yourself with family and loved ones and things will get easier I promise.
Billy