As for the Fray Check, yes, it is “crispy” for lack of a better word. Next time use Fray Block, a different brand that has a much softer hand. It is found at places like Joann’s in addition to mail order. BYW, you puncture the tube to release the product. Don’t use the big poker on the lid. Use a pin instead so the product releases a smaller quantity. I have found this very effective and much softer, particularly after washing. And the risible on the back of block should keep it from fraying.