Just change over Justok. She can skype and find you in your happy zone doing your thing and she can be in her happy zone doing her thing. If you loose her over that maybe she was never a friend. The statement that "someone who picked me for her quilting buddy" is unsettling to me. You mentioned she lives thousands of miles away. That might be a good thing. If she is upset wish her a happy life. I find block and delete very freeing options on the computer.