That was my problem too so when they said "whatever you want to make" I'd come back with I don't want to make anything so let's go out to eat. Most times that fixed the problem and they'd mention something to me then. I love to cook but I'm alone now so don't care to cook just for me. But I do make large pots of soup using items from the garden mostly, make enough to freeze half and eat the other half between other meals. Now my sister loves to cook and loves to try out new recipes. We've been having a bumper crop in our gardens this year so we've been looking for recipes to use it up. Its been fun being her guinea pig this summer.