Good for you!
Even self-imposed goals/deadlines/expectations for non-essential activities can become downers -
Gee - I'm a failure because I did not finish that "whatever" I promised myself that I would finish last month -
So? The sun rose and the sun set without any input from me. Am I "disappointed" with myself? A bit - but not that much - especially considering that the "whatever" was probably started years ago, anyway.