QNS--yes it is a blessing to have family around/needing me. Sometimes it gets a little stressful but thankfully I have God and a great husband to lean on for support!
givio--Yep, I just turned 40 in April this year.
Got married 2 weeks after I turned 18 so have been married 22yrs, have 18 and 21yr old daughters and 20 yr old son...the younger two are living at home. DS works full time for a general contractor (so does anything from tile, trim, painting, kitchens, bathrooms, windows, siding, etc) and has since he was 16 (started part time while finishing his homeschooling). My oldest DD is moving to DM this next week and youngest I told about above.