I hand quilt because I never learned to machine quilt. I have found the fewer seams the better. I use whatever needle is in the pin cushion that works with the thread I'm using. The more you do, the smaller your stitches will become. Also, if you focus on each stitch, you will go crazy. Do a row, then step back and look. Concentrate on making your stitches even, not small. Also, big stitch or Japanese Sashiko quilting is beautiful. Be patient with yourself. Are you planning on using a hoop? Google hoop-less quilting for a different perspective.