This is a tough one for sure. We want our quilts to go to the proper recipients and not get sold or 'stolen' by staffers etc.
I have heard more than once that there are hospitals and other charities that receive quilt donations and the nurses etc 'fall in love' with quilts and take them home. Shame on them!
That is why I would prefer that a representative from a quilting group go with quilts in hand and personally hand them to the children or parents. I understand that is not always possible because of 'privacy' policies.
warm quilt hugs, sue in CA