I agree-find out what is going on. It may not be illegal for a charity to say one thing and do another, but it is definatly unethical. Not only that, but if they are selling donated quilts, where is the money going? Maybe they decided to sell them to rais money for the cause? In any case, they owe you an explanination because you donated the quilts in good faith thinking they would be given out to those that need them.And since you were contacted by someone who bought your donated quilt, you need to find out why you were told one thing and another happend. The fact that they won't contact you is suspicious. It is true that when you give, it is out of your hands, but we aren't talking about pwesonally donating a quilt to a neighbor because their house burned down,we are talking about a charity that has a name to uphold and the public should know if something not right is going on. Please let us know how this turns out.