So many questions. Who has asked you to make the quilt? Do they have any idea of what they're asking, or do they think that since you sew anyway, you might as well whip this out for them? Would you be paid by the person asking, or are you expected to donate the time and expense? Do you know the recipients? Do you enjoy doing requests that you have no personal motivation for?
If you feel any reluctance, I would suggest you say no.