Oh, Alyce, so very sorry for your son's passing. Glad you were able to stay with him during that last time. And totally understandable you reluctance to be sewing. But maybe when you are looking at fabric, think about what he would suggest as it sounds like he was very saavy with quilting.
Anniedeb--yikes! Sounds like the Grinch visited your house! thank goodness your son is so helpful.