I feel for you. It is hard for me to say to friends that I don't quilt for anyone else, just my family. I will make a quilt and give it to someone if they have touched me in some way, but not if someone asks me to make a quilt for them. I am now working on a t-shirt quilt for first grandson for his graduation this spring. I can already hear it - would you do one for my son/daughter too? Then I will start on one for first granddaughter graduation in spring of 2022. My reasoning for not doing work for others is I know people will critique or say something like I would have done it this way, etc. I've heard that too often when someone talks about a quilt they had done for them by someone else. Unless you are a quilter, people have no idea the amount time and money spent on making a quilt. Maybe I am a little selfish but that is how I feel.