Once, my sister in law informed me in a very nice way that although I was making quilts for our family, she really wasn't into quilts at all and I didn't need to make her one. That's OK because a lot of work would have gone to waste. If it matters to you that they enjoy and honor your quilt, there is that. If you are OK with them giving it away or using it for a dog blanket, there is that. I've heard the phrase "quilt worthy" a few times and I actually do make sure the recipient would appreciate a handmade quilt. Someone else on this board makes picnic quilts for gifts and I think that is a great idea. This is just my 2 cents worth!