I have three sisters and a brother, I call all of them on there birthdays, but have never gotten a call on mine. I don't let it hurt me any more. I will still call them. Your children will need to work this out on there own. go to the wedding, your son was hurt so only time will heal, he knows how this hurts you but he is also hurt. yes you do have deppresion. I have had it forever, please go to your Doctor, take walks in the sun while its there, or just sit out in it. but you done all you can, so now just do something for you. If you need to talk, pm me. you are in my prayers. Penny Doty