A quilters when we hear of a new baby, wedding, graduation, loss, or illness we immediately think of making a quilt for the situation. That's what we do. It's all we can do in many situations to show how how much we care and want to give a heartfelt gift. It is a letdown to know that the person may not understand the amount of time and love that goes into the gift of a quilt and simply does not see it as so. The main point is that we made and gave a gift of love and we know it.