Terriamn, I am so sorry to hear about your friend. I hope she is feeling alright and can function well despite the slurred speech and awful prognosis. I hope you will be able to visit with her and laugh together many more times before this journey is done.
Hav4boys, my heart aches for you and your family. Your mom must love her life and your attention a whole bunch since she has not yet been willing to let go. Are the kids visiting, too, or is it just you and your siblings at this point?