I think you did the right thing. To me this is very personal for the family members who wanted the quilts to be made (surviving spouse and child). You did it for them, not for anyone else.
Take a soothing breath, you did the right thing.
If this friend continues, just tell her/him that that the subject is out of bounds and closed. If they still continue to fuss, don't dignify it with an answer. Silence is golden.
Last edited by quiltsfor; 10-30-2022 at 04:24 PM.