My daughters sister-in-law was the same way towards my quilts, she helped my daughter pack to move and she asked where in the world did you get all these blankets, and my daughter said, my mom makes the quilts for the kids, and she then said, well you need to tell her that you don't need this crap. My daughter was very embarassed because I heard the whole thing. Now her sil has her own house and guess what she wants....a quilt. Guess what she is not getting from me!!!!