I think the OP is talking about quilts for donation to charities and so doesn't have the option to get to know what the person prefers. That's good advice though if you are gifting to a family member or friend. The OP seems to donate a lot of quilts to charities, from what I've read and has a very generous heart! Probably looking for more generic ideas for men and boys.
I have seen charities asking for more quilts for boys.