I love the "nap time-play time" idea! I agree with Pam that asking for input and then disregarding would seem a bit odd. And I do see the value of incorporating enough interest for the baby, toddler, child as this will be a large throw to be used for years. All great input - thank you!
Constantine63 - your Hunters Star quilt is beautifully done and is a great option, too.
Looking forward to a visit to my favorite LQS (or two) in the next few days and I'm sure a grand plan will come together. Thanks again for the thoughtful ideas!