I am so sorry a family member would say something like that to you. Now you won't be able to look at her without remembering how crude she is. Family functions will be less enjoyable.
I have been lucky so far and everyone I have given a quilt to has really appreciated them and thought them beautiful.
Some women seem to feel the need to cut another woman down if she can do something the 'cutter' can't do. I call it jealousy