I think reality is at the end of the day we need to be honest with ourselves about our stuff. My kids have zero interest in any of my stuff. When I am gone I have asked my kids to go on a road trip and spread my ashes at my preferred location and along the way make an effort to find people who look like they could use a hug, give them a quilt and a hug and move on to the next person(s) and continue till my quilts are all in new homes. They thought that would be fun.
As to the OP dilemma, your motives are genuinely kind and thoughtful, but is the task really something you wish to take on?