This is a sad situation, but true that everyone does not feel the same way about our hobbies and possessions. I have the opposite problem. My oldest DD wants everything in my sewing studio (aka double garage), + a cabinet or two from inside the house. She has my mums' treadle machine, hers, and wants mine, including my Tin Lizzie and frame. Heaven only knows where she will put it, as they have a large shed full of furniture and a car, also a storage container full of whatever. DD & partner are working away and have all in storage, and she hasn't done any quilting for years, too busy and too many other irons in the fire.
My second DD only wants the quilting machine, and no. 1 DD is already complaining about it, so I will have to try to declare what each one gets before I pop off.
Gay, I had to laugh when I read your response because that would be my daughter to a T!! All of my sewing machines....many! many! Cabinets and shelves full of fabric, walls of hanging pegboards loaded with templates, rotary cutters, patterns, quilting tools, you name it, it's there. Actually have two sewing rooms full! I will never have to worry about what will happen to it all when I am gone, because she wants it and also quilts, so it is a relief to me that it will go on to good use.