Originally Posted by
joe'smom
I don't really understand the rationale of repairing an old quilt. The quilt can be treasured as it is, while being retired from use out of respect, both for its provenance and for the fact that it has been well used. This, to me, would be preferable to putting new repairs on a worn quilt.
It strikes me, since this relative 'loved loved' the quilts you made for your uncle, that maybe she was hoping you would say, 'I'm not comfortable with the idea of repairing a quilt, but I'd be happy to make you one.'
Of course, that would be separate from the question of whether you would be happy to make her one, and what your terms would be.
first part yes I agree, I don't think I'd personally repair an old quilt. I don't really like the looks of repaired quilts since it changes everything. I did tell her the patches will REALLY stand out and she didn't care.
And yeah my very first thought was she was trying to get a new quilt out of me, but I will not offer to do that. If she asks I'm not sure I want to. My other aunt and uncle have always been very nice, supportive etc and treat my mom (who has severe mental health issues) with respect and kindness. I planned on making a new quilt for our bed and after doing a queen size for my niece who just moved in with her boyfriend I thought better of it. I just can't do big quilts with my own health anymore. So I took the already bought fabric and turned it into two lap quilts. I know for sure they will treasure them and use them. I mean if she offered to pay me I might do it if she just wants on the same size, but again I just don't know. I haven't been sewing as much lately due to health issues, I'm trying something new to see if it helps but so far, nothing. I'm so so exhausted I can barely make it to the bathroom, let alone do a quilt for someone who might not really use it. I do try to force myself to quilt a bit since I have had to give up so many other hobbies. But days like today, I'd rather sell everything and just sleep. haha.