I only cook if I want to. My husband and I don't like a lot of the same foods or eat at the same time most days so I make what I like and he grills what he likes. We go out to eat once a week at our favorite restaurant. The kids all come over for cook outs during the summer and pot roasts for winter. After the usual house chores are done I have the rest of the day to sew and all evening if I chose. . He is an avid reader so that what he likes to do. He plans his day and I plan mine.