Have you contacted them? They are showing two in stock now, so they may have cancelled your order without your knowing it. Some places cancel backorders if they go beyond a certain length of time, but I don't know what Craft Connection's specific policy is on that.
I'd call (or email) and ask about the status of the order placed on (date) for (item). If they say it was cancelled and ask if you want to reorder, I'd tell them no and go to Desert Rose. Calling is better in this case, imo. Desert Rose still shows three in stock, btw. Good luck!