I remember way back the discussion about not re sending candies, as some people had sorted through what they received and took out anything they didn't like and sent it to the next person. Sometimes I'm amazed at just how thoughtless people can be - that would be like if I went through my stash and pulled out all fabric I didn't think was up to my standards, then cut it up and gave it all to my quilting friends! But that is why there is the rule not to send something you wouldn't want to receive.