I made my DIL's sister a graduation quilt...I didn't know what her tastes were but made it out of Batiks...it was gorgeous and I made a pillow case to match. Sent it to her and that was the end...never heard if she got it or liked it or not...was going to ask my DIL and then thought NO, I let it drop. Tried real hard not to dwell on it but it does hurt, doesn't it????